Setting Realistic Goals for Spoonies in the New Year

Setting Realistic Goals for Spoonies in the New Year

Posted by Spoonie Threads Staff on

As we step into a fresh new year, many of us find ourselves reflecting on goals and resolutions. For spoonies—those living with chronic illnesses or disabilities—goal-setting can feel like a balancing act. The energy, time, and health fluctuations that come with chronic conditions make traditional goal-setting strategies less than ideal. Instead, setting realistic and adaptable goals can help you move forward while honoring your needs.

Here are some tips to help spoonies set meaningful and achievable goals for the new year:

1. Start Small and Specific

Instead of broad resolutions like “get healthier,” focus on specific, small steps that align with your reality. For instance:

"Drink one extra glass of water each day."

"Stretch for five minutes in the morning."

"Spend 10 minutes journaling each week."

Small, manageable goals are easier to accomplish and build momentum over time.

2. Prioritize What Matters Most

Not all goals need to be about productivity or achievements. Ask yourself: what brings you joy, peace, or comfort? It could be reconnecting with a hobby, calling a friend once a month, or carving out time to rest without guilt.

3. Listen to Your Body

Your energy levels may change daily, and that’s okay. Plan your goals with flexibility in mind:

Create a “high-energy” version and a “low-energy” version of your goal. For example, “exercise” could mean a short walk on good days or light stretching on tougher ones.

Use tools like symptom trackers to identify patterns and adjust accordingly.

4. Celebrate Small Wins

Every step forward is worth celebrating! Whether it’s completing a task, listening to your body’s needs, or simply showing up, acknowledge your efforts. Use positive reinforcement to motivate yourself without feeling pressured.

5. Include Rest and Self-Care

Rest and recovery are vital parts of achieving your goals. Plan for rest days without viewing them as “setbacks.” For example, your goal could be, “Take one intentional rest day each week to recharge.”

6. Be Kind to Yourself

Life with a chronic illness is unpredictable, and sometimes you’ll have to pause or adapt your goals. Remember, adjusting doesn’t mean failing—it means prioritizing your health. Show yourself the same kindness you would offer a loved one.

7. Use Tools and Supports

Utilize apps, planners, or even sticky notes to keep your goals visible and manageable. Adaptive tools—like Spoonie Threads’ products—can also help make daily tasks easier and more comfortable.

Examples of Realistic Goals for Spoonies:

Spend 10 minutes practicing mindfulness or meditation daily.

Try one new adaptive tool that could make daily life easier.

Focus on improving one area of health, such as better sleep hygiene or nutrition.

As you move into the new year, remember that your goals are uniquely yours. They don’t need to look like anyone else’s or meet arbitrary expectations. Celebrate progress, no matter how small, and prioritize what feels right for you. Here’s to a year of self-compassion, growth, and honoring your journey!

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